Friday, October 7, 2011

The causes of many relationship problems

Many of our conflicts and relationship problems arise from the fact that we act to please or hurt others, and we feel hurt or pleased by others' actions, or from the fact that we express our feelings in order to change others' minds, and we change our minds as a result of others' feelings.

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Guide to relational therapy

A few things that may help you better your relationships


Many conflicts and relationship problems arise from the fact that we act to please or harm others, and we feel pleased or harmed by others' actions. Relational therapy is designed to change that.




Case of Jim


Jim is a 42-year-old accountant. He is married, and has no children. He came to therapy because of his panic attacks and relational problems with his wife and his boss.



Groups

The relational method can be used in groups, particularly in organizations, classrooms and families to change crossed relations and thus increase performance and satisfaction.